Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Connecting With Your Teen in the Kitchen by Preparing a Gourmet Meat & Banana Dish Together

by Janis Brett Elspas
MommyBlogExpert.blogspot.com

Since Sunday my triplet 13 year-olds and I have been shopping and cooking up a storm for the upcoming Jewish New Year, also known as Rosh Hashanah, which starts this Wednesday evening.  

We're expecting lots of guests over the three-day holiday, since the two-day Yom Tov (Jewish Holiday) is followed immediately by Shabbat (the Sabbath) this year.  So it's a good thing both my daughters love spending time in the kitchen creating with food.  I hope that this reassures those of you with boys and girls 12 and up that Yes, it is possible to communicate with teenagers.  All you have to do is find a common language like cooking together.

This morning, the older of my daughters prepared one of her favorite main courses called Costa Rican Ground Beef Patties with Grilled Bananas.  I acted as official photographer, as well as her prep cook, doing some of the more tedious tasks such as chopping onions, washing dishes, and cleaning counters, while she took center stage as chef.  

Apples are traditionally associated with both fall and Rosh Hashanah, so don't you think she looks festive in the colorful sturdy vinyl full apron she's wearing that we received from Davida Aprons?  

Watch for future posts of me and my girls wearing the other cheery apple finery Davida sent us.  This company, BTW, is well-known in the secular and Jewish worlds for their wonderful aprons and other themed items. In the meanwhile, check out the Davida Aprons site to learn more about why they are say they are the #1 manufacturers of Jewish Fun wear and Kitchen Kitsch that has been carried by stores such as Bloomingdale's.

I hope you'll try out the delicious recipe below which both kids and adults will enjoy any time of year.  Depending on their age (and abilities) you can have can have your own child do some or all of the easy steps involved in making this gourmet dish, too.  Even an elementary school kid will enjoy helping to mix the meat mixture together, for example.  The most important thing is to allow kids to do as much as they are able to.  Have fun, enjoy each other.  In the end, you will both feel so proud.

Costa Rican Ground Beef Patties
with Grilled Bananas
4 Servings

Ingredients:
1 lb ground beef or turkey
1/4 c. matzo meal or bread crumbs
1 onion finely chopped
1 t. dry red pepper flakes
salt & pepper to taste
2 ripe bananas
6 T. melted margarine
You'll also need a little olive oil for frying the meat

Directions:
1. Mix in bowl all ingredients, except bananas and melted margarine
2. Firmly but gently shape meat mixture into small balls about 1 inch in diameter
3. Set rack in oven about 6 inches under heat and preheat broiler (you'll use this later for grilling the bananas later)
4. Heat a small amount of olive oil in a frying pan and then add the patties, cooking over medium high heat until meat is cooked through and browned nicely
5. While meat is frying, cut bananas first in half crosswise, then slice lengthwise (you'll end up with 4 pieces per banana) and place all bananas slices cut side up in baking plan and drizzle with melted margarine.
6. Carefully set prepared banana pan under the hot broiler for about 5 minutes until carmelized and browned, then remove from oven
7. Place meat patties onto serving dish first, then top with the grilled bananas
8. Serve hot with traditional Costa Rican side dishes such as rice and beans, either mixing the two together as one, or serving separate spoonfuls of each
9. Last, but most certainly foremost -- enjoy this for a nice sit-down dinner with your family 

What fun things do you do with your kids in the kitchen? Please feel free to post and share not only your ideas and recipes, but also your fondest memories of cooking with your children, too.

FTC Disclosure: MommyBlogExpert's family received three apron apple-themed aprons from Davida Apron, including the one pictured to facilitate the test and review described but did not receive any payment or other compensation associated with this post.   See complete FTC Disclosure information that appears at the bottom of MommyBlogExpert's main page and at the bottom of every individual post on this blog, including this one. 

Friday, September 3, 2010

10 Ways to Make Your Favorite Foods Healthier for You & Your Family

by Janis Brett Elspas
MommyBlogExpert

Often I write about cooking and healthy living on this blog, especially sharing my experiences with quality time in the kitchen and outdoors with my kids.  For example, there was the post I did about making homemade ravioli with my teen son with a hand crank pasta maker and the one I did about how this blogging mom stays fit while biking with my daughter.   

Luckily, obesity does not run in our family, either.  In fact since I, my DH, and kids are living healthful lifestyles full of good food and lots of exercise already, it's a shame  that this post is the first time I'm writing specifically about how to MAKE the foods my family and I eat healthier.  Nevertheless, I welcome the challenge to tackle this subject today.

Making food healthier does not have to equate with preparing things that are less tasty or appealing to the eye.  In fact, the opposite is actually true and to show you how, here are my personal 10 tips for ways you can make the things you and your kids like to indulge in more nutritious.

1. Decrease or Eliminate Fat Used in Cooking
Always consider either reducing or completely leaving out the greases and oils you use in food preparation.  Experiment with leaving out fat in certain foods, perhaps baking chicken instead of frying it in deep fat.  Another thought: Opt for olive oil instead of corn oil -- without cutting back the quantity of oil you use, your meals will still be delicious while also contributing a lot less cholesterol and unnecessary calories to your daily count.

2. Sneak Some Vegetables Into Kids' Meals
Kids are notoriously finicky about vegetables.  This is due in part to the fact that parents often don't introduce veggies into a child's diet early enough.  But it's never too late to put health back into your kid's meals.  For example, if they love macaroni and cheese you can make it more healthy by not only adding cheese (American, Cheddar, Mozzarella, etc) to the out-of-the-box complete "meal" you buy at the grocery store, you can also make it more colorful by mixing in either frozen peas or even fresh sliced carrots that you have pre-cooked lightly.  My kids call this dish Macaroni & Cheese Confetti and they never seem to tire of it.

3. Do Food Preparation With an Artistic Approach
While we are on the subject of adding color to the foods you serve your family, think of other ways that you can add some pizazz to the dishes you serve.  Things such as bright green parsley and other garnishes help boost the eater's appetite and you can get creative with the way you use it to make almost any food more appealing.

4. Create Foods that are Playful & Fun
Think making little sailboats out of baked potatoes cut lengthwise with a toothpick and triangle slice of American Cheese as the sail.  But remember, this does not strictly apply to when you are cooking for the kids.  Yes, even us adults enjoy playing with our food.  Case in point: who doesn't love a Chocolate Volcano dessert with whipped cream every so often?

5. Mix Things Up Some Unusual Food Combinations
Change things up a bit. Look for recipes that juxtapose unusual ingredients.  To illustrate this, I point to the watermelon, cucumber, and heirloom tomato gazpacho I make in late summer and fall every year when tomatoes are at their peak.  This sounds really weird, I know, but it looks gorgeous and tastes really good.  Actually, it's tomato season now and my kids have been pestering me to make this for them.

6. Don't Be Afraid to Substitute More Healthy Ingredients
Here's another opportunity for even the most challenged cooks among us to get a little creative.  When cooking from a recipe, scan down the list of ingredients it calls for before you begin.  If there's anything listed that you don't like or that is particularly high in calories (or other bad stuff) than try to think of a way to substitute a different item to replace the culprit.  I, for one, usually use Mocha Mix, a non-dairy cream substitute, whenever a recipe calls for cream or half and half which cuts calories and cholesterol astronomically. No math is required, because I use the same amount of liquid when I substitute this.

7. Invite the Kids Into the Kitchen for Some Gourmet Adventures
I've already told you about the blogpost I did about my son and I making homemade ravioli from scratch with an antique pasta maker.  Right now, my daughters are looking forward to cooking with me for the holiday of Rosh Hashanah next week and I'll be blogging about that soon. You should try to get your kids into the food preparation act, too.  Not only will you have quality time with them, but you can help them pick out recipes involving healthy ingredients.  What's more is that because the children themselves take on a more active role in making the food there's a higher chance that they'll be very eager to eat their own cooking, too.

8. Let Your Children Each Choose & Help Cook One Meal Each Week
This is one that we do at our house.  In fact, each kid always looks forward to be being the one to decide (and be "in control")  and cook their weekly request night meal.  With some direction and guidance from a parent on incorporating nutritious items into the menu, you can guide them toward making healthier choices while also providing the avenue toward children feeling of greater self-importance.  They'll think it was all their idea, too, is you make your suggestions gently.

9.  Take Advantage of Produce When It's in Season
I talked above about my succulent Watermelon, Cucumber & Tomato Gazpacho and how it's so good when tomatoes are at their tastiest and also are the most affordable.  In fact, my daughter loves ketchup which shouldn't surprise me since I'm her mother and my favorite produce is tomatoes at the peak of the season.  But, remember, tomatoes are but one way to eat well in-season.  Nearly all produce is very, very good for you and virtually ever other fruit or vegetable is available in more varieties at better prices during certain times of the year. Take advantage of those benefits by being on the look out for recipes in magazines and on the Internet that celebrate their abundance.  It goes without saying that eating peak season produce has got to be one of the best ways to eat like a king on a poor man's budget and get all your nutrients too.

10.  Make Family Dinner Time Mandatory & Sacred
Though this last tip does not exactly make the food itself more healthy, this type of home setting tends to inspire home cooked, well-balanced fare, not fast-food purchased meals.  It's the one thing that is absolutely law at our house.  Ever since all four of our kids (triplets plus one more all born within a year) were toddlers in high chairs and booster seats we have always eaten together for dinner each night.  We continue to make this a priority today now that they are teens.  Actually, I'd rather set a realistic meal time that everyone can partake in than having one or more family members missing at the table because statistically, the family that eats together regularly builds the most solid, long-lasting relationships.  

Speaking of food and cooking. I'm going to finish and push the publish button right now for this blogpost because one of my daughters has been bugging me for the last hour to bake some Cowboy Cookies with her. These cookies, by the way, are the tastiest and healthiest ones my family has ever had because they use raw oatmeal.  So, I better get out to the kitchen now to help her before she burns the whole house down!

How do you make food healthier for your own family?  I hope you'll share all your ideas here with the rest of us in the comment section below.

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Thursday, September 2, 2010

Think-ets Genius from Think-a-lot Toys Makes MommyBlogExpert's Best of Kids' Traveling Games List

Part 2 of a 7-Part Series on Cool Tween/Teen Games That Also Travel Well

Don't forget to leave a comment below this post.  Do your kids prefer thinking games or ones that are pure fun? 

by Janis Brett Elspas
MommyBlogExpert.blogspot.com

Writer's Note:  This summer my family and I took a 4-week road trip across America.  As a mommy blogger I suggested each of my kids select from among all the games in the queue for review by MommyBlogExpert.  What they packed resulted in the original Traveling Fun on the Run Toy Box for Tweens/Teens actually created with a small rolling carry-on bag measuring a tiny 18" x 12" x 6" to hold everything pictured.  Anyone who has kids 12 & up knows how challenging taking any sort of vacation can be with that sometimes surly age group, don't we?  By trip's end, though, I can assure you, I was pleasantly surprised by this summer trip games-in-the car experience in general and, in particular, by the bonding that took place between us as a family during the weeks we traveled.

The smallest game my family (triplets, age 13 and big brother 14) and I decided to demo for our summer road trip vacation was Think-ets Genius from Think-a-lot Toys.  This little piece of entertainment -- the box is small enough to hold in your hand -- designed by real-life dad Randy Compton was big on fun, and led to many hours of thought-provoking chatter for us.  

On our most recent roadtrip, my kids and I often enjoyed this creatively- and mentally-stimulating game as we wound down in our roadside motel each night after another day of adventure on the open road. But, they also played it in the car while I drove, too. The box says it is for ages 8 to 108+ so I think it might also be the perfect candidate for multiple generations of kids, parents, grandparents, and possibly grandparents to enjoy together anytime of the year, for example, during a visit to relatives or even a family reunionI guess all that shouldn't surprise me since the company that makes Think-ets Genius has received recognition from iParenting Media Awards.

Among the merits that I found with this game was that it could be easily played solo or with 2 or more players.  While I played this with my kids and they also enjoyed it with each other as a foursome, I have to admit my kids aren't always the best at sharing.  Actually they did fight a few times over it so I let (read: had to allow) each of them to play it alone for awhile to keep the rioting to a minimum.  As I write this review I can't help but chuckle because one of my daughters just reminded me of the time on our trip when her sister and brother were so involved in this game that they wouldn't eat lunch until I said I would punish them if they didn't take a break right away and get some nutrition.
The pieces in Think-ets Genius are somewhat reminiscent of my all-time favorite Monopoly game from my own childhood in size and feel.  As you can see, though, from this picture the former's parts have a twist that's contemporary, cutting edge and intriguing all at once.  

To experience what we did with the game Think-a-lot Toys sent us, think of all the stories you might make up if you or your child had even just a few of the pieces the game comes with. These items range from a polar bear, red pom pom, arrowhead, bone-like bead, compass, seashell, and Pyrite stone to a historical character in costume, mini gold tone princess crown, shiny pink heart, and ceramic crescent moon or star, to a tiny tomato, flute or spyglass, modern jet plane, and little goblet/cup, with a single, 12-faceted brightly-colored numbered die thrown in for rolling. 

There's even more that is good about this, too. This Think-a-lot Toys product is assembled by the Developmental Disabilities Resource Center-Bruno Employment Center in Lakewood, Colorado, providing employment, training, and job placement opportunities to people with disabilities.  In this day and age when so many kid's games and toys are manufactured off shore, it's nice to hear about one company that is at least packaging its products in the good old USA.

As a more challenging version of the original award-winning Think-ets game ($9.99), the Genius's premise is equally simple and at the same time, just a bit more brilliant than its predecessor.  The latest version features 15 brand new miniature items that are pictured above in the product closeup from around the world from the US and foreign countries like Peru, India, China and the Philippines.  These pieces, the manufacturer notes BTW, may vary slightly depending on availability.  Among the 12 all-new games kids and adults can play with this product's contents (which also include a rule book, notepad and pencil) that all pack inside a hinged-lid storage tin measuring less than 4" x 2-1/2" are: "Surprise Story," "Time Warp Story," "Interrupted Story," "Name That Word," "Ghost," "Killer Mouse," and more.

With a retail price of $15.99 Think-ets Genius is available to the public online from Think-a-lot Toys here, as well as elsewhere on the Internet and at select retailer stores.  Information on additional games for at-home and school use that are available are listed on the company's siteFurther information for retailers interested in carrying the Think-a-lot Toys line is also offered.

This little gem of a game was certainly practical and fun for traveling.  My own kids loved it and we look forward to bringing it out at home the next time we have company over as an ice breaker.  It's living proof supporting the saying that good things -- I'm mean great things -- often do come in small packages.

What do you think of this product?  Is Think-ets Genius an intellectual game, just plain fun or both?  How about your own kids, do they prefer thinking games or ones that are simply meant to entertain? Please leave a comment below this post to let us know.

FTC Disclosure: MommyBlogExpert's family received Think-ets Genius from Think-a-lot Toys to facilitate the test and review described but did not receive any payment or other compensation associated with this post.  Additionally, this blog did not have the opportunity to review the original Think-ets game that is also mentioned in this post.  See complete FTC Disclosure information that appears at the bottom of MommyBlogExpert's main page and at the bottom of every individual post on this blog, including this one.