Thursday, November 18, 2010

10 Tips for Stylish Layering Techniques for All Occasions - Ideas From My Teens

My Daughters Mugging for the Camera at an Event at The Grove in L.A. 
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

My 13 year-old girls have taught me so much about style especially about layering clothes, which really is an art that is either innate or can be learned.  I'm always amazed at the wonderful ensembles these two very different daughters (who are triplets) come up with -- whether they are going to a friend's house, an event, or a formal affair.  

The Elspas Girls at Laura Ingalls Farm in SD
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

Come to think of it, they even layer fashionably when we are going skiing in the Sierra Mountains of California, visiting a farm on one of our family road trips, or heading to the beach.


Here's 10 Things I've learned about layering from this trendy duo
  • Think creatively and never be close-minded about what types of clothing combinations you can layer together.  For example, the younger of my two girls thinks nothing of mixing a denim jacket with an elegant silk scarf accented with some contemporary costume jewelry. I so admire that she instinctively knows how to make it all work together.
  • Be adventurous with fabrics, textures, prints, solids, and color.  I love the way my older daughter pulls this one off, mixing up plaids, stripes and sometimes a summer skirt with a winter sweater.  
My Younger Girl, the Queen of Accessorizing
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com
  • Accessorize with fun, inexpensive jewelry, hair ornaments, bags, belts and shoes.  Why stop with a lovely layered outfit? Dress it up and make it playful.
  • Experiment with different looks that either include layered outfits that are monochromatic, several complementary colors, or if you're really adventurous include a riot of different bright or muted colors.
  • Beg and borrow from each other, your mom, and friends to find the perfect t-shirt, tank top, blouse or sweater to go with that multi-colored embroidered jeans skirt in your closet.  It's amazing what new things you can find that look great without going shopping, but looking in other people's closets instead.
  • Change up not only what you layer but how you layer the various pieces in an outfit.  For example, wear a twisted shrug instead of wearing it the regular way.  Another great idea is taking the long wool scarves that are so cozy and either twisting them rope style or just tying some strategically placed knots in the scarf before you drape it over your shoulders.
  • Coordinate your favorite layered outfit with your sister's or a friend's, either by using the same color scheme or by both wearing the same layered elements such as a tank, tee, and sweater over sleek jeans. You can have a lot of fun with this one not only planning it but trying each other's layered styles.
  • Organize all your layering elements in your closet and dresser.  There are several ways to tackle this. You can either hang all like colors of various wardrobe pieces together in your closet so you can easily see what you have.  Or, you might want to fold and stack all like items in your dresser, such as stacking all the different t-tops in one pile, all tanks in another, and all sweaters in yet another stack.  This way everything you have is easy to find when you need it, so you can spend more time putting your outfit together and less time looking for lost articles of clothing.
  • Take the time to keep all your layering elements in tip top shape by washing or dry cleaning them as directed. Also be sure to repair tears, missing buttons and anything else that might need fixing before pieces are cleaned so that they are ready to wear when they get back to your closet.
  • Edit your stock of layering pieces at the end of every season, donating to charity things that you either no longer like or that don't fit anymore.  You definitely don't want unused items of clothing taking up valuable storage real estate that could be better used for organizing the pieces that you love and wear often.
I'm so grateful that I have two fashion-forward daughters.  I know I've still got a lot to learn from them, but I am a very eager student. 

What has your kids taught you about style? Leave a comment at the bottom of this post and share it.

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Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Holiday Travel With Kids - Tips to Navigate the Question Are We There Yet?

by Guest Blog Columnist
Jeff Siegel, Author of RelationTrips

All the photos in this post were taken by Janis Brett Elspas, creator of MommyBlogExpert, on her own family's latest road trip adventure in Summer 2010.

Editor's Note: Jeff Siegel is author of RelationTrips to be released in early 2010 which offers his advice on how to transform family  journeys from “Are we there yet?” to “Let’s go!”

In RelationTrips, Siegel teaches families to turn a common road trip into a creative and spontaneous journey that builds lasting bonds.  RelationTrip, as defined by the author, is an ongoing series of family trips, personalized and planned together by adults and kids around a common theme or interest.


  
Mt. Rushmore, South Dakota, 2010
MommyBlogExpert's Daughter & Hubbie
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert

Traveling over the river and through the woods this holiday season offers a great opportunity for families to engage, connect and create a lifetime of shared memories during their time on the road.

1.  Name your Holiday trip.  Before you embark, sit down as a family and personalize your trip by giving it a name. Weave in something relating to the holiday for which you are traveling, such as “Turkey in Detroit.” Or consider including the family name, such as “The Douglas Family’s December to Remember!”

2. See the journey with new eyes. No matter how many times your family, may have traveled the route, take the opportunity to discover hidden gems along the way.  Pick out two or three new places to stop while in transit, such as a landmark that you have never visited or a roadside restaurant that you’ve always wanted to try.

Ice Cave, New Mexico, 2010
MommyBlogExpert's Girls Panning for Gold
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert

3. Get creative with games. Help pass time while in the car by making up games to play. Give them a Holiday feel – such as Guess My Favorite Present, Name That Christmas Tune, The Chanukah Memory Game and Quote that Holiday Movie.

4. Be your own DJ. Challenge each family member to put together a play list of their top ten Holiday tunes. Have each member of the family take turns doing their own countdown.

5. Design a scavenger hunt. Determine your rest stops ahead of time and pick out items to find at each one. Create a checklist of items to spot while you’re on the road and have each member of the family keep track along the way. Bring along a prize for the person who finds the most items and award it when you reach your final destination.

National Route 66 Museum, Oklahoma, 2010
MommyBlogExpert's Kids
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert

6. Have fun with Holiday food. While you are on the road, take a detour to a farm or market to gather ingredients for the meal. Once you arrive, plan a food-themed activity such as visiting a turkey farm to “Pardon A Bird” or a local orchard for a sleigh ride and hot apple cider.

About Jeff Siegel
In 2000, fun-loving, single-father Jeff Siegel embarked on a spur-of-the-moment vacation with his son Spence that took them across the southwestern tier of National Basketball Association arenas.  Shortly thereafter, Siegel formulated a grandiose plan:  he and Spence would visit every NBA arena and Major League Baseball park in the United States. 

What started as a series of hilarious road games and unexpected tours turned into a journey that would change everything for the Siegel and his son.  Through their quest, Jeff and Spence have re-imagined the classic road trip and invented a new model for a family vacation – the RelationTrip.

In the coming months, Siegel will share his sage advice in an inspiring and engaging new book RelationTrips: A Simple, Powerful Way to Bond with Your Loved Ones Through Personalized Road Trips.  In RelationTrips, Siegel provides a practical road map for building enduring family connections and creating trips filled with adventure, imagination, discovery and fun.  For more information see MyRelationTrips.com

Please leave a comment: Where will you be taking the kids for the holidays and how will you keep everyone engaged along the way?

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Free Holiday Cosmetics Event for Moms & Your Kids - Nov 19th - Southern California

Temptress Cosmetics 
Holiday Open House
Friday, November 19th, 6-9 pm
El Segundo California

Sparkling Face Glitter Pots
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

When I heard about this event on the Southern California coast just north of Manhattan Beach, I thought that it was definitely share-worthy with my readers.  I mean, really, who doesn't love a little sparkle in their life, especially now right before the holidays? 

This sounds like such a fun opportunity for moms like you to get out for an evening with your kids that you'll both enjoy.  It might be a wonderful Friday night girl's night out with your tween or teen daughter, too.

Lots of Festive Activities Are Planned
  • Spin to Win Great Prizes
  • Tree Lighting Ceremony With Santa
  • Complimentary Holiday Hay Ride
  • Free Samples
  • Live Holiday Entertainment
  • Elf on the Shelf Treasure Hunt
PLUS Exclusive One Night Only In-Store Specials

Store location and additional information below. To stay in the loop about future events and other news, follow Temptress on Facebook.

Plaza El Segundo
730 D Allied Way
El Segundo, California 90245
310-647-3467 

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