Friday, March 11, 2011

Mars Needs Moms - A Family Disney Movie That Appeals to Kids, Parents & Grandparents - Opens March 11



Family Movie Review
Mars Needs Moms (In Disney Digital 3D™ and IMAX® 3D)
Walt Disney Pictures/ImageMovers Digital - Opens Today

MommyBlogExpert's Triplet Daughter
AMC IMAX Theater, Burbank, Calif.
iPhone Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

A 9 year-old boy named Milo says, “My life would be so much better if I had no Mom at all.”  

That’s the key line that sets in motion Walt Disney Pictures' Mars Needs Moms, the IMAX 3-D film that I previewed Wednesday night with my 13 year-old triplets at the AMC Theater in Burbank, California.

I imagine many of you parents are probably nodding your heads knowingly right now.  Most of us have either said those awful words to our own mothers and/or had those hurtful comments spoken to us by our kids or grandchildren.  I know I have been on both sides of this unfortunate conversation, both as a kid and a mom.

When my family and I have the opportunity to see a kid-friendly movie built around such a loaded statement as the one Milo makes, I usually do several things.   First, I do my own exit interviews and ask each of my children immediately after seeing the film what their initial reactions are.  In the show biz world this is what they call an audience tracking survey.
AMC Theater Box Office. Burbank, California
 iPhone Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

Next, I ask the kids for their input the next day to see if there are any notable changes or expanses in their opinions.  Finally, I find it very helpful to sleep on it before I write about a film like this that I can personally relate to.  That’s because the review angle route I end up taking always seems to take a complete 360 from what I originally would have done had I been on a same-night deadline like the well-known movie critics often are.

Hey, I’m only a mommy blogger, trying to raise four kids who all happened to be born within a year.  My second job is doing frank content-rich reviews about family friendly topics for my readers, so here goes my own take on this latest Disney project.

Backstory
Disney’s latest motion-capture film Mars Needs Moms is based on the book Mars Needs Moms! by Pulitzer Prize winning cartoonist Berkeley Breathed.  The title was inspired by an interaction between the author/illustrator's real-life son, also named Milo, and wife.  

The screen version is a wild and funny adventure in Disney Digital 3D™ and IMAX® 3D directed by Simon Wells (The Polar Express, The Time Machine, Prince of Egypt) and co-written by Wells and his wife Wendy Wells, who are parents of two daughters.  
Mars Needs Moms Movie Scene
Image by Walt Disney Pictures 2011

A bit of trivia: Simon is the great grandson of H.G. Wells, the science fiction author of The War of the Worlds and many other great classics.

The Technology
The film -- made in partnership with ImageMovers --  is produced by Academy Award®-winning director Robert Zemeckis (Forrest Gump).  To capture the action on film, called performance capture, thespians wore special body suits that were marked with dots that were then used to map out the characters movements and facial expressions, using Avatar-style computerized animation.

“Our actors wear sensors,” Zemeckis explains.  “They perform the entire movie using their bodies, voices, faces as if they were on stage—it’s like a black-box theater.  We captured the performances in 3D, taking the emotional essence and wrapping settings, character appearances and creatures around those performances.” 

Storyline
The story begins with a mishap involving a child named Milo and broccoli – a vegetable I recently used to illustrate my DealPop guest post about kids eating healthy.  

Watching the scene from the planet Mars, Milo’s mom is singled out for her all-around model parenting skills, resulting in her abduction by Martians.  That's because the Red Planet’s nanny-bots need a parenting primer to properly raise their own hatchlings that are sprouting like potatoes back home.



As the plot rockets forward, Milo finally shows regret for his actions, but it is already too late. The Martians have taken his mom and he hitches a ride to Mars to get her back.  The majority of the rest of the film’s action takes place as son faces his own fears while attempting to rescue mom.  The good news is that he does find her.  Then, there’s a twist of events when his mom ends up saving his life instead.  Isn't that what moms are really for?

Characters & Cast
The character Milo character is acted out by two people: Seth Green (Austin Powers Trilogy) does the action with the youngster’s voice coming from 11 year-old child performer Seth Dursky (TV commercials & Nickelodeon's Big Time Rush).  

Two interesting tidbits. First, the name "Seth" in Hebrew translates to "gift" in English.   Second, the fact that the two actors share the same first name is purely coincidental.

Other major members of the cast are Dan Fogler (Gribble), Joan Cusack (Milo’s Mom), Elisabeth Harnois (the rebel, Martian Ki), Mindy Sterling (the Supervisor), Kevin Cahoon (Wingnut).  Fogler, a Tony Award® winner and star of Kung Fu Panda also currently stars in Take Me Home Tonight an R-rated movie that is definitely not suitable for underage youth.

The Movie Review
My kids had very different reactions to the movie, ranging from just saying that it was boring to identifying with the badly behaved boy to showing empathy for the mom. I attribute this to the fact that my children are 13 year-old triplets + one more all born within a year -- so they are at the upper edge of the audience demographic for this PG movie.

For sure, my own teens are at the crest right now, half way between childhood and being full-fledged adults.  Still, I think this film has the potential to be best received by the 8-12 age-range audience it seems to target as well as by these kids' parents and grandparents.  I'll talk more about the latter audience demographic in a minute.

Mars Needs Moms Movie
Image from Walt Disney Pictures 2011

Disney’s movies -- whether rated G or PG – certainly are notorious for their messages when it comes to the relationships of parents (and in some cases extended family) with their young. 

Think the film The Lion King, for example.  Walt Disney Pictures has historically been well regarded for double but parallel storylines that make movies possible for kids and parents to watch side by side.

In the latest production from Disney, the take away for kids is obvious.  You really do need (or want) your mom at any age.  Also, it also confirms that you'll never should stop appreciating her.  For a parent though, (since I am one myself), I think the message is much more introspective and complex.

On the one hand, moms and dads must see that kids need to be kids and as their guardians we need to permit them safe space to express themselves independently of the child-parent-caregiver relationship.  

But, on the other, as moms (and many dads too) we have a natural need to feel needed and to nurture the children we are raising whether they are biologically-related, adopted, or fostered.  So, the challenge for us adults is to balance being there for our children, even when they’re rejecting us.

Mars Needs Moms, on a much larger scale, speaks tomes about today’s world and is a true example of art imitating life.  In my eyes, Disney’s latest animated venture paints a sad, but true assessment about what is going on in our society right now.  

For most of the movie, rearing children is seen strictly as the domain of the robotic women who work very hard, but fail to succeed in meeting the needs of their charges.  As a consequence the results are disastrous for Mars.

The fantastical Martian males (both adults and babies) are depicted as detached from the women and girls, as well as from family life.  Definitely, negative stereo-typing.  So much so, that the guys on Mars are literally living out their lives on a lower level, in the planet’s garbage dump for most of the movie.

Unfortunately, the reality is that here are on earth there are still too many single moms raising fatherless kids who have never known their dads.  

Which is where I want to bring up the grandparents.  That is because in today’s community, especially here in the U.S., there are now Baby Boomers who are grandmas and grandpas raising their kids’ kids in record numbers.

Burbank Police Cars, Downtown Burbank, 2011
iPhone Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

It’s also why I think Disney’s script is so clever successfully crossing over its appeal to multiple generations effectively for the first time.  I’m not a grandparent yet myself, but many others my age are.  

Based on experience, I don’t think I’ve seen more imagery or heard more 1960s slang lines spoken in any animated feature since 1969 than in Mars Needs Moms.  I mean, when was the last time you saw a psychedelic VW bus or for that matter heard any one say, “Right on,” or “Dig it,” or refer to our law enforcement as, “The fuzz?”

Mars Needs Moms offers something that kids, moms and dads, and grandparents can all take home. These are truly gems of wisdom to prize above all else.

I guess it really takes a family and a village to raise kids to become contributing members of society.  To borrow a 60s phrase and line from this film, "To give that crazy love thing to each other."  That and more dads, like my hubbie, who are involved in their children's lives and who actually do change diapers and help us weary mommies with our babies.

MommyBlogExpert's Hubbie
Holding 2 of Our Infant Triplets After Changing Their Diapers
Vintage photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

That, in a nutshell, is why I think kids 8-12 as well as parents and grandparents of this age group should go see Mars Needs Moms.  Best of all, unlike its purported competition also opening today -- Sony's Battle: L.A. and Warner Brothers' Red Riding Hood which are both rated PG-13 -- Mars Needs Moms is rated PG.


Are you going to see Mars Needs Moms? Why or Why Not?  If you've already seen it, what did you think? Also, what’s your all-time fave Disney animated film that has appeal to both kids and parents? Feel free to leave comments to any of these questions below.

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Tuesday, March 8, 2011

FREE Kids Music, It's Everywhere

Family Entertainment 



The Jimmies

How to Find It and Spend Little or No Money

Despite cutbacks in the arts in general -- and music education in particular -- in the schools, wholesome musical entertainment for children continues to be alive and thriving, especially for the preschool set. 

In this day and age of more frugal living, parents will find solace in knowing that they don't have to scrimp on their kids' joy of listening to wholesome music, because it is often available for free (or, in some cases, almost free) as long as they know where to find it.



Richard Perlmutter, Beethoven's Wig

The Fresh Beat Band -- which has been covered by MommyBlogExpert multiple times -- is among the newest kids on the block.  This perky 20-something group of kids that airs their own show on Nickelodeon joins solo artists zeroing in on kids like Richard "Ricky" Perlmutter of Beethoven's Wig fame and Hap Palmer.  I'd be remiss not to mention the beloved Raffi as well as popular singing groups for the very young such as The Jimmies and The Wiggles of Australia. Indeed, families today are very fortunate to have access to a wide variety of talents that not only are positive role models, but that also get children excited about music early in life.



Hap Palmer

Where to Find FREE Music for Kids


Probably the best known source of free access to kid-friendly music is still PBS Kids Public Television; if you are paying for cable you probably have access to other kid-centric programming from channels like Nickelodeon and Disney, to name but a few.

Parents don't forget to choose wisely among cable shows, satellite radio channels, and Internet activities such as games, videos, and craft projects associated with a wide range of kid programming, too.  All of these also deliver music and musical appreciation fun that's suitable for children.


The Fresh Beat Band


But moms and dads: you don't have to stop there. You should also take advantage of what many local libraries now offer.  Thanks to well-stocked music collections: kid music CDs that can be checked out with a library card at many public and school libraries.  Not only that, but many libraries, such as the Beverly Hills Library in California, offer a variety of child and family-friendly musical performances throughout the year that are free not only for Beverly Hills residents but to the public at large.  So, check with your local library and other arts organizations to see what no-cost events they are offering for children.


Raffi

Keep in mind, too, that libraries are only the tip of the iceberg where families might find free and low cost music for children.  Other great ways to expose kids to free music include hanging out in children's specialty book stores as well as at the big book chains that have large kid sections such as Barnes & Noble which often hosts a variety of free entertainment performances for little ones.

Likewise, shopping centers and malls are also a great place to look for kid-friendly free music programs.  Another idea for those living in or near cities and metro areas that are fortunate enough to have their own professional symphonies is to find out if any free concerts for kids and/or families are available and/or if these organizations allow access to rehearsals free-of-charge as a way to reach out to the community in the name of music education.



The Wiggles

There are so many other places to find accessible music for kids that don't have to cost a bundle.  Moms and dads should check the Internet, television/radio, and the local newspaper(s) regularly for upcoming music events of interest.  Also, families shouldn't overlook the many free regional and local parenting publications they have at their disposal to check calendars of events monthly to find out when music programs appropriate for kids will be  held.  Here in Los Angeles we have LA Parent which lists hundreds of fun and educational activities each month.

All photos in this post are from the various singer, group, and TV channel websites shown. 

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Monday, March 7, 2011

NEWS CONFERENCE: 60 U.S. Child & Family Groups Unite to Fight U.S. House of Representatives Budget Cuts



Family

First Day of School: My Four Kids - Triplets + 1
Vintage Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

As a mommy blogger of four children living in the state of California, I feel compelled to do my part to make moms and dads (both parent bloggers and regular moms & dads) nationwide aware of this huge non-partisan issue that affects families.  A press conference takes place March 9th that explains all the particulars.

Children’s Leadership Council (CLC) – on behalf of 57 of America’s leading child, youth and family organizations representing millions nationwide – holds a major news conference at 10 a.m. this Wednesday, March 9, 2011 in Washington, D.C.

According to a news advisory I received this morning from the Children's Leadership Council, the potential budget cuts -- that are now in the House and could eventually be sent to the White House for signature -- will harm kids and families in all 50 U.S. States.   The news conference this week will give America's families an overview of the impact the cuts will have with an emphasis on the states of AK, AZ, CA, FL, MI, MS, MO, MT, NV, NM, OH, PA, TX, VA and WI.

From CLC's Washington D.C. News Advisory
"Is spending on children really driving the federal deficit?   Did they cause the financial crisis or bring about the current recession?   If not, why does the U.S. House Continuing Resolution (CR) punish hundreds of thousands of America’s most vulnerable babies, children, youth and families with billions of dollars in cuts to programs and services that go far beyond anything contemplated by any previous Congress?"

The CLC News Conference on Wednesday will provide data detailing the devastating national and state-by-state harms of the proposed cuts to child- and family-focused programs and services, with a special focus on programs including Early Head Start/Head Start, child care, maternal and child health, school-based health clinics, Community Services Block Grant, low-income home heating assistance, Pell Grants, and Youth Employment, Education and Training.

Five News Event Speakers Include
  • Matthew Melmed, chair, Children’s Leadership Council and executive director, ZERO TO THREE
  • Michael Petit, president, Every Child Matters Education Fund
  • Kisha Bird, project director, Campaign for Youth, CLASP
  • Bill Bentley, president & CEO, Voices for America’s Children
  • Almeta Keys, former Head Start parent and now executive director, Edward C. Mazique Parent Child Center, Washington, DC
FOR D.C.-BASED REPORTERS: Members of the media in Washington, D.C. area are invited to attend this live news conference starting at 10 a.m. EST on March 9, 2011, at the National Press Club, 529 14th St., NW, Holeman Lounge.

FOR REPORTERS OUTSIDE OF D.C.: A live, one-way audio feed from this news event will be available to reporters outside of Washington, D.C., starting at 9:55 a.m. EST on March 9, 2011, by dialing (800) 860-2442. Ask for the “Children’s Leadership Council” news event. After the news event, questions may be posed by contacting Ailis Wolf, (703) 276-3265.

POST CONFERENCE: A streaming audio replay will be available at http://www.childrensleadershipcouncil.org as of 3 pm EST, March 9, 2011.

About Children's Leadership Council
The Children's Leadership Council (CLC) is a coalition of child advocates representing over 50 leading national policy and advocacy organizations who are working everyday to improve the health, education, and well-being of children and youth in order to prepare them for school, work, and life.  The Council believes investing in children and youth is investing in America.  By making all of our children - from birth to young adulthood - a priority, we strengthen our country and secure everyone's future. 

Parents and families: How do you feel about the looming proposed budget cuts that will cut deep into American families? Leave a comment and speak out.

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