Family
It's about time very public working Dads like US Representative Paul Ryan (father of 3 kids ranging in age from 10-13) are taking a stand proclaiming that family comes first before work. In fact, he has publicly stated that time with family is a pre-condition of running for House Speaker.
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In this CNN story on work life balance and the gender gap by Kelly Wallace you'll read all about Ryan's pro-family stance as well as see quotes from moms reacting to his position including family lifestyle experts Janis Brett Elspas of MommyBlogExpert, Jennifer Owens, Working Mother Media, Lela Davidson, author of Faking Balance: Adventures in Work and Life and others.
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Parenting
Guest Post
by Jeff Erwin
CEO, Intego
Don't Turn Your Child's Screen Time into Scream Time
We are culturally obsessed with digital devices. It’s a trend that shows no signs of slowing down, with many toddlers today knowing their way around a smartphone or tablet with mastery.
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As CEO of a technology company, I know I should be thrilled at our fascination with anything streaming. But I’m also a father of three kids which means I know what happens when it’s time for
children to put down the electronics in favor of mealtime, bedtime or any other family activity that doesn’t involve a keypad. Today, many parents are struggling with managing their children’s screen time—so that it doesn’t devolve into scream time.
In a recent survey we conducted at Intego which focused on Internet security, 49 percent of parents said their child’s use of a mobile device interferes with bedtime, schoolwork or mealtime. And 27 percent of parents said limiting screen time is a losing battle. Yikes!
But the good news is, by implementing some of my favorite tips below, I believe parents can turn the tide of this technology tsunami by easily and more efficiently managing their children’s screen
time—while still allowing kids to experience and benefit from mobile technology.
- Have a family meeting to discuss online safety and Internet-usage rules. Use these meetings as a way to establish household screen time boundaries. Start the meeting by having family members calculate the amount of screen time they spend on games, phones and TV. It’s important that the entire family undertake this initiative Leading by example will go a long way toward encouraging children to play along.
- Establish screen-free zones in your household where no technology is permitted. These zones could be in places where the family normally interacts—around the dining room table, for example.
- Treat the online world just like the real world. There are important rules kids are often already aware of in the physical world that they need to know also apply to the online world and their mobile devices. Don't interact with strangers. Keep personal information private. Be polite and respectful of others. Most important encourage your child to always tell you or a trusted adult it they encounter anything that scares them or makes them feel uncomfortable.
- Parents can also can also set limits on technology usage. This is tricky, because homework often requires Internet access. But parents can establish the 9 p.m. turn off rule during the week, where all digital technology is turned off in favor of reading, sleeping or other non-tech activities.
- You can’t be everywhere all the time, so once household rules have been established, we recommend a parental control solution such as Intego’s Family Protector to help you monitor web usage, and restrict digital purchases of apps and games.
When it comes to technology, parents and children should understand the value of moderation. Technology, when used appropriately, is a great way for children to communicate and explore the world. But key to this exploration is parental management of digital devices to ensure that children are still achieving balance between “real world” and screen time.
About Intego
Family Protector is the only parental control app for iOS that combines mobile device management with the ability to set screen time limits, send lock screen messages, freeze the device on demand and apply age-based web restrictions. Family Protector is affordable and easy to use. Family Protector is available for a $5 monthly subscription. Visit Intego's site for more information.
About the Author
Jeff Erwin has been a startup founder and CEO in the tech and software industry for more than 30 years. He and his wife have three children who grew up as the Internet and video games began
to capture the interests of tweens and teens. Jeff currently serves as CEO of Intego, a leading provider of Mac security software and makers of parental controls.
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