Holiday Travel With Kids - Tips to Navigate the Question Are We There Yet?

by Guest Blog Columnist
Jeff Siegel, Author of RelationTrips

All the photos in this post were taken by Janis Brett Elspas, creator of MommyBlogExpert, on her own family's latest road trip adventure in Summer 2010.

Editor's Note: Jeff Siegel is author of RelationTrips to be released in early 2010 which offers his advice on how to transform family  journeys from “Are we there yet?” to “Let’s go!”

In RelationTrips, Siegel teaches families to turn a common road trip into a creative and spontaneous journey that builds lasting bonds.  RelationTrip, as defined by the author, is an ongoing series of family trips, personalized and planned together by adults and kids around a common theme or interest.


  
Mt. Rushmore, South Dakota, 2010
MommyBlogExpert's Daughter & Hubbie
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert

Traveling over the river and through the woods this holiday season offers a great opportunity for families to engage, connect and create a lifetime of shared memories during their time on the road.

1.  Name your Holiday trip.  Before you embark, sit down as a family and personalize your trip by giving it a name. Weave in something relating to the holiday for which you are traveling, such as “Turkey in Detroit.” Or consider including the family name, such as “The Douglas Family’s December to Remember!”

2. See the journey with new eyes. No matter how many times your family, may have traveled the route, take the opportunity to discover hidden gems along the way.  Pick out two or three new places to stop while in transit, such as a landmark that you have never visited or a roadside restaurant that you’ve always wanted to try.

Ice Cave, New Mexico, 2010
MommyBlogExpert's Girls Panning for Gold
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert

3. Get creative with games. Help pass time while in the car by making up games to play. Give them a Holiday feel – such as Guess My Favorite Present, Name That Christmas Tune, The Chanukah Memory Game and Quote that Holiday Movie.

4. Be your own DJ. Challenge each family member to put together a play list of their top ten Holiday tunes. Have each member of the family take turns doing their own countdown.

5. Design a scavenger hunt. Determine your rest stops ahead of time and pick out items to find at each one. Create a checklist of items to spot while you’re on the road and have each member of the family keep track along the way. Bring along a prize for the person who finds the most items and award it when you reach your final destination.

National Route 66 Museum, Oklahoma, 2010
MommyBlogExpert's Kids
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert

6. Have fun with Holiday food. While you are on the road, take a detour to a farm or market to gather ingredients for the meal. Once you arrive, plan a food-themed activity such as visiting a turkey farm to “Pardon A Bird” or a local orchard for a sleigh ride and hot apple cider.

About Jeff Siegel
In 2000, fun-loving, single-father Jeff Siegel embarked on a spur-of-the-moment vacation with his son Spence that took them across the southwestern tier of National Basketball Association arenas.  Shortly thereafter, Siegel formulated a grandiose plan:  he and Spence would visit every NBA arena and Major League Baseball park in the United States. 

What started as a series of hilarious road games and unexpected tours turned into a journey that would change everything for the Siegel and his son.  Through their quest, Jeff and Spence have re-imagined the classic road trip and invented a new model for a family vacation – the RelationTrip.

In the coming months, Siegel will share his sage advice in an inspiring and engaging new book RelationTrips: A Simple, Powerful Way to Bond with Your Loved Ones Through Personalized Road Trips.  In RelationTrips, Siegel provides a practical road map for building enduring family connections and creating trips filled with adventure, imagination, discovery and fun.  For more information see MyRelationTrips.com

Please leave a comment: Where will you be taking the kids for the holidays and how will you keep everyone engaged along the way?

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Free Holiday Cosmetics Event for Moms & Your Kids - Nov 19th - Southern California

Temptress Cosmetics 
Holiday Open House
Friday, November 19th, 6-9 pm
El Segundo California

Sparkling Face Glitter Pots
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

When I heard about this event on the Southern California coast just north of Manhattan Beach, I thought that it was definitely share-worthy with my readers.  I mean, really, who doesn't love a little sparkle in their life, especially now right before the holidays? 

This sounds like such a fun opportunity for moms like you to get out for an evening with your kids that you'll both enjoy.  It might be a wonderful Friday night girl's night out with your tween or teen daughter, too.

Lots of Festive Activities Are Planned
  • Spin to Win Great Prizes
  • Tree Lighting Ceremony With Santa
  • Complimentary Holiday Hay Ride
  • Free Samples
  • Live Holiday Entertainment
  • Elf on the Shelf Treasure Hunt
PLUS Exclusive One Night Only In-Store Specials

Store location and additional information below. To stay in the loop about future events and other news, follow Temptress on Facebook.

Plaza El Segundo
730 D Allied Way
El Segundo, California 90245
310-647-3467 

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DIY Haute Couture Eco-Friendly Bag & Scotch Tape Craft GIVEAWAY Contest


Thanks to Scotch(R) Double Sided Tape for sponsoring my writing about crafts.  Add your comment below to be entered for a chance to win free sample rolls to help with your upcoming holiday needs.

I love arts and crafts as a hobby, but unfortunately I haven't had much time to do it since I had four children, all born within a year, including triplets plus one more.
Recycled Shopping Bag - Before
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com


In fact, I haven't spent more than 15 minutes here and there to unleash my artistic side since I started mommy blogging full-time, while also homeschooling my four teens (including three 13 year-olds).  I guess you could say that I'm just slightly busy all the time.  Really -- what mom with kids isn't?

Now, I must confess.  Last week I played hooky from blogging for several hours to have some fun and make something beautiful out of an assortment of odds and ends I happen to have on hand at home.  At first, I actually felt guilty for taking time away from MommyBlogExpert to work on this DIY craft project, but shortly after beginning to create what I'd thought of in my mind over the several weeks prior, I'd completely forgotten about my blog!

Recycled Shopping Bag - After It's Been Accessorized
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

Since I enjoy sharing creative ideas with this blog's readers, I had to pass this on to you.  Here are the easy directions so that you too can steal away for a few hours to make a beautiful eco-friendly fashion statement kind of bag either for yourself or for someone else as a gift bag or as a gift in itself.  My teen girls went wild over this bag, so now I'm working on another one because like most siblings, they're not very good at sharing and each must have their own.

Eco Designer Original
Embellished Bag
All The Odds & Ends Used to Make This Gorgeous Bag
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert

Materials Needed:
  • Shopping Bag from your favorite store
  • Assorted, already read fashion magazines
  • A store catalog or two that you received in the mail
  • Odds & ends such as broken costume jewelry & baubles
  • Your choice of recycled ribbons, lace edgings, and/or trims
Tools Needed:
  • Scotch Double Sided Tape
  • Glue Dots
  • Scissors
Easy Directions:

1.  First choose a color scheme, either several complementary colors or monochromatic ones (different shades of one color); neutral colors, black and white will look good with either
2.  Choose a shopping bag from your favorite story, any size you want but in good condition
3.  Gather a few old fashion magazines and store catalogs and from these use scissors to cut out an assortment of fashion accessories, brand labels, cosmetics, models, or whatever you like that looks pretty and fits the color scheme you selected in step #1
4.  Next, go into your jewelry box or junk drawer and look for light weight pretty items such broken pieces of costume jewelry in your colors as well as in gold and/or silver that you've been saving for years for no reason
Detail showing magazine/catalog cutouts, ribbon & jewels on bag
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

5.  Lastly -- again, keeping your main color scheme in mind -- check your daughter's hair ribbon box, Grandma's old button tin, and look inside your closet (and your kids') for clothes that are no longer worn that might have some fun lace, edging, or some other accents that you can steal from it to use for this craft
6.  Lay everything out on your the front of your bag without attaching anything so you can move things around till you're happy with the arrangement
7.  Then, use Scotch Double Sided Tape to attach larger pieces such as wide ribbons and bigger cutout pictures to the bag and Glue Dots to attach smaller pieces and tiny rhinestones and faux jewels
8.  That's it. Your bag is done, ready for you to add to your own accessories collection or to use as a one-of-a-kind gift or gift bag for a fashionable family member or friend
So, go ahead and take a break from whatever you have to do and get crafty.  If anyone asks, say that MommyBlogExpert encouraged you to take a little time off to create something eco-friendly, inexpensive, and fun.  

I hope you enjoy making this fun project as much as enjoyed developing the idea.  I look forward to hearing how your own bags turns out.  In fact, I'd love to add your projects to this post, so if you have a JPG to send, leave me a comment with your Twitter or email info so I can contact you.

Eco Designer Original Embellished Bag
Finished Project

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Live Ustream Event TODAY With Q&A by actor Noah Ringer - Marks DVD Release of The Last Airbender

In a little more than 2 hours (4 pm PST) my 13 year-old son, a purple belt Karate student here in L.A., and I will be arriving to cover a special event that celebrates the DVD release of the film The Last Airbender from Paramount Pictures and Nickelodeon Movies.

The Last Airbender with 13 year-old star Noah Ringer
Photo from Paramount via MNRWire.com

Fans of all ages around the globe are invited to attend this event virtually as it happens via http://www.ustream.tv/lastairbender live from Hollywood.  On the off chance that you miss the live stream, not to worry -- you'll be able to access the recorded version of this later at your leisure at the same link through 2/16/2011.

The Last Airbender star Noah Ringer, now 13, will address Los Angeles American Taekwondo Association (ATA) students in person, while connecting online with ATA schools across the country in Dallas, Chicago, Philadelphia and Miami Areas.  Special cameras and monitors set up with Ustream will enable ATA schools in these major cities to link up with Noah directly to ask questions about his martial arts background and his action-packed role in The Last Airbender.  Additionally, ATA schools across the country will be setting up themed “watch parties” for the online event to mark the film’s home entertainment debut.   

The Last Airbender Now Available on DVD
Photo from Paramount via MNRWire.com 
 
More About the Event, the Movie and Noah Ringer
The Last Airbender actor Noah Ringer, who stars as Aang, the lone Avatar, will team up with the American Taekwondo Association (ATA) and Paramount Home Entertainment to participate in this live streaming video event.  From Los Angeles, joined by distinguished event moderators Taekwon Lee and Mike Chat along with local ATA students, Noah will connect with ATA schools nationwide to talk about his experience on the film as well as demo some of his favorite Taekwondo moves.

Two years after he began studying Taekwondo at age 10, Noah earned his 1st degree black belt, and utilized his martial arts experience to land the lead role in the live-action family adventure The Last Airbender, now on DVD.  Ringer is a 2nd degree black belt instructor and holds the 2009–2010 title of Texas State Champion in his age group in five different categories.

Highlights and other content from today's The Last Airbender Ustream event -- including a VNR and featurette previews of the film -- will be available for viewing and downloading on Wednesday, November 17th at www.MNRwire.com/lastairbender.

Watch for another blogpost on MommyBlogExpert.com after the event with a photographic and written report of the event today.

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Some Novel Ideas for Fighting Cabin Fever With Preschoolers and School Age Kids This Winter


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Even before the holidays -- it always seems -- cabin fever begins setting in for just about everyone who has kids.  As a mom of four born within a year, including triplets, I can definitely relate to that.  


It's getting dark outside a lot earlier, so the days are noticeably shorter and the weather is cooler.  This all adds up to our children spending much more time indoors in late fall and winter than during the rest of the year.   This couldn't be truer than in places like Minnesota and other northernly states that have already had quite a bit of snow this year.

Parents: have no fear because this blog post has been written specifically to help you and your children make the best of the chilly months ahead.  With hope, you'll find a few ideas here for creatively carving out family quality time by looking at such basic quiet indoor pastimes as reading books and playing games together as a family in a whole new way.


Winter Reading
Can you imagine anything better than reading together with your child?  I know I can't.  My kids may all be teens now, but each still looks forward to the required hour before bedtime at our house called "Free Read" on school nights where each kid much be in their bed quietly reading the book of their choice. 

Without a doubt, whether you read to your child or he/she reads to you, the rewards will always be the same.  You'll not only be maximizing the chances that your kid will build strong verbal reading skills that will serve him/her well as she moves into the school years, you will also be fueling their growth as a full-fledged reader who will always love books.


It's not difficult to get children excited about books if you start when your kids are babies and always remember to
  • Choose books that appeal to your child and that are age-appropriate, such as board books and sturdy pop-up books for babies and, for older toddlers and preschoolers, illustrated picture books with increasing amounts of text as they reach school-age 
  • Encourage your child to answer and ask questions about the pictures in the books they read as this is a great way to build both vocabulary and verbal skills, even with children who are not ready to read by themselves
  • Stimulate your soon-to-be kindergartner's imagination by asking them not only why they think things happened in a book, but by encouraging them to create their own sequel ideas if they were writing a new book
Certainly, infants, toddlers and preschoolers all have different reading abilities and needs and as parents we need to pay attention to these.  To get started download and read this FREE Comprehensive Reading Guide, courtesy of Kindercare.com, which outlines these variables and how you as a parent can help your child blossom through exposure to reading books at every stage.



Family Game Night
Set aside one night per week to get together and play games as a family.  This may be easier said than done unless you follow a few ground rules.  To make it work make sure you
  • Require all family members (dads and older siblings included) to plan ahead so they can always participate each week
  • Turn on the phone answering machine and turn off all electronic distractions in the house (except for appropriate music), including cell phones, computers, video game devices, television, battery-operated games and toys, etc.
  • Select games for younger children that are age appropriate and that are naturals for you to play along with them, such as building with blocks or large Legos side by side with your child for toddlers or playing a game like I Spy with letters and sounds for preschoolers
  • Play simple, but fun board games with school age children that are fun for everyone such as classics like Monopoly or Scrabble
About KinderCare
Kindercare Learning Centers operates year-round and is currently accepting registrations for their Winter Science Camp that runs from Dec. 20-23 and Dec 27-30.  During these sessions fun and educational activities will include learning about gravity, creating balloon rockets and simulating volcanic eruptions, among other fun things to do that teach through doing about science.  With approximately 1,600 centers located in 39 states and the District of Columbia, KinderCare Learning Centers, an accredited early childhood provider, offer a range of educational programs and after-school care for infants as young as six weeks old to school aged children through age 12.  For general information about childcare and educational programs visit Kindercare.com  or to sign up for this year's Winter Science Camp here.


What are your favorite ways of spending quality time with your children during the long winter months?  Please leave a comment below and share.

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