10 Tips to Get Your Kids to Eat Vegetables and Fruits During the Holidays & All Year from American Heart Association


Fresh Fruit Plate,The Standard, West Hollywood, California
Among the Healthy Foods Served at Jane Fonda's Workout Relaunch Tonight
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

In the midst of the holidays it's a wise idea to do some motivational posts to help you make sure that your family doesn't fall victim to unhealthy eating during December that spills over into the new year.  Now is as good of a time as any to talk about some great strategies to get your children to eat vegetables and fruits during the holiday season and throughout the whole year, too.

According to the American Heart Association (AHA), in a new study, children who ate the most vegetables and fruits had significantly healthier arteries as adults than children who ate the fewest.

 Here are AHA's 10 tips to encourage your children to eat more vegetables and fruits
  1. Make fruit and vegetable shopping fun: Visit your local green market and/or grocery store with your kids, and show them how to select ripe fruits and fresh vegetables.  This is also a good opportunity to explain which fruits and vegetables are available by season and how some come from countries with different climates. 
  2. Involve kids in meal prep: Find a healthy dish your kids enjoy and invite them to help you prepare it.  Younger kids can help with measuring, crumbling, holding and handing some of the ingredients to you.  Older kids can help by setting the table.  Make sure you praise them for their help, so they feel proud of what they've done.  
  3. Be a role model: If you're eating a wide range of fruits and vegetables -- and enjoying them -- your child may want to taste.  If you aren't eating junk food or keeping it in your home, your kids won't be eating junk food at home either.  
  4. Create fun snacks: Schedule snack times -- most kids like routines.  Healthy between-meal snacks are a great opportunity to offer fruits and vegetables.  Kids like to pick up foods, so give them finger foods they can handle.  Cut up a fruit and arrange it on an attractive plate.  Make a smoothie or freeze a smoothie in ice cube trays. Create a smiley face from cut-up vegetables and serve with a small portion of low-fat salad dressing, hummus or plain low-fat yogurt. A positive experience with food is important. Never force your child to eat something, or use food as a punishment or reward.
  5. Give kids choices -- within limits: Too many choices can overwhelm a small child.  It's too open ended to ask, "What would you like for lunch?" It may start a mealtime meltdown.  Instead, offer them limited healthy choices, such as choosing between a banana or strawberries with their cereal, or carrots or broccoli with dinner.  
  6. Eat together as a family: If your schedules permit, family dining is a great time to help your kids develop healthy attitudes about food and the social aspects of eating with others.  Make sure you are eating vegetables in front of your children.  Even if they aren't eating certain vegetables yet, they will model your behavior.
  7. Expect pushback: As your kids are exposed to other families' eating habits, they may start to reject some of your healthy offerings. Without making a disparaging remark about their friends' diet, let your children know that fruits and vegetables come first in your family.
  8. Grow it: Start from the ground up -- create a kitchen garden with your child and let them plant tomatoes and herbs, such as basil and oregano in window boxes.  If you have space for a garden, help them cultivate their own plot and choose plants that grow quickly, such as beans, cherry tomatoes, snow peas and radishes.  Provide child-size gardening tools appropriate to their age.
  9. Covert operations: You may have tried everything in this list and more, yet your child's lips remain zipped when offered a fruit or vegetable.  Try sneaking grated or pureed carrots or zucchini into pasta or pizza sauces.  Casseroles are also a good place to hide pureed vegetables.  You can also add fruits and vegetables to foods they already enjoy, such as pancakes with blueberries, carrot muffins or fruit slices added to cereal.  On occasions when you serve dessert, include diced fruit as an option.
  10. Be patient: Changes in your child's food preferences will happen slowly.  They may prefer sweet fruits, such as strawberries, apples and bananas, before they attempt vegetables.  Eventually, your child may start trying the new vegetable. Many kids need to see and taste a new food a dozen times before they know whether they truly like it.  Try putting a small amount of the new food -- one or two broccoli florets -- on their plate every day for two weeks; but don't draw attention to it.
What are you doing to get your kids to eat their vegetables and fruits? Would love you to share your advice with this blog's readers.  Please leave a comment and let us know what works for you and your family.

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When Is Hanukkah This Year? A Rock Video on YouTube by Melee for Teen Jews & Non-Jews Alike


Though those who celebrate this Jewish holiday will be lighting the last candle of the 8-night fete of Chanukah tonight, I loved this YouTube and wanted to share with you.  Hopefully this will enhance everyone's celebrations of all races and creeds.

Christmas always falls on the 25th of December so everyone knows when it is, both those who celebrate it and those who don't. Conversely, Hanukkah is based on the Hebrew calendar the date varies from year to year and can fall in either November or December -- so it's not unusual for both non-Jews and those who are not that observant to know when it is.

I think all people regardless of religious affiliation and level of observance -- both those who celebrate Hanukkah and those who don't -- will really appreciate the holiday message in this video.



2nd Nite of Chanukah - Homemade Potato Latkes for Kids
1st Nite: in the Chanukah Mood With Adam Sandler & 8 Crazy Nights Song
Guess what my teen daughter is getting for Chanukah this year
Beyond Thanksgiving Pie: Moving into Hanukkah & the rest of the holidays
Really Memorable Gifts for Celebrating Hanukkah


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6th Candle - Monday's Hanukkah Celebration at Los Angeles Police Department Training Center


Whoa, I'm way behind schedule with my Chanukah reports.  Last night we lit the 6th candle -- and we've already lit the 7th light this evening -- and I still haven't told you all about the unusual holiday celebration I took my teens to yesterday.
My Eldest Son in the Lobby of LAPD's Ahmanson Training Center
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

Can you think of anything more unique than celebrating Hanukkah at the L.A. Police Department (LAPD) Training Center in Los Angeles?  Sure there were potato latkes and sufganiot (jelly doughnuts) to eat plus a DJ playing Chanukah music and a menorah lighting, but that wasn't what made this so unforgettable.

Instead, what my kids and I discovered was a truly educational and meaningful event where my kids and I celebrated the Festival of Lights while we all learned something new about what it takes to train our city's police force.  After today, we really had a much greater appreciation for those who serve to protect us, literally putting their lives on the line during a typical day's work.
LAPD Officer Herman, Who is Also a Mom, is Flanked by My Daughters
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

This is definitely something I think we will always remember.  Though the activities, organized by Chabad of South La Cienega (SOLA) which is affiliated with the worldwide Chabad organization only ran from 12:30 till 3 p.m., we did so much in this short period of time.  

Upon arrival at LAPD's Ahmanson Recruit Training facility, older children had the chance to visit a number of static displays from various LAPD units, while toddlers enjoyed a table where they could work on safety-oriented coloring pages.  The kids also got to talk one on one about their jobs with some amazing active police officers such as Lisa Herman.  Officer Herman, BTW, is a police officer and a mom of four children who will be participating in the 250 mile bicycle Police Unity Tour in Washington, D.C. next May to help raise awareness about officers killed in the line of duty.

A Most Memorable Sight to See All in One Place:
Police Academy Cadets in Formation and the Lighting of the Menorah
Photos by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

A Real Working LAPD Police Car
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

Big kids and small ones loved the chance to actually sit in the seat of a real police squad car that is currently used by the LAPD.  These are definitely not the mock ups of police cars you may have seen at children's museums.



An LAPD Officer-Handler With his Bomb K-9 Dog
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

Animal-loving kids and adults (like me) enjoyed meeting a Bomb Officer and his very friendly, bomb-sniffing K9 dog.  Party goers also had the chance to visit with two of LAPD's mounted police officers and their conversation-starting horses.  

As if that wasn't enough, during the afternoon, the kids and adults were thrilled by a thunderous fly over of an LAPD helicopter just for them.
My Eldest Triplet Daughter is a Horse Lover So She Really Loved This
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com 

Families got to tour the Academy's grounds, both indoors and outside, too.  The kids were struck by the military precision and discipline of the drill teams as they marched in the yard as much as they were amazed at how studious the officers in training were in the classrooms.   Surprisingly, during the walk through the facility we saw a wide range of beautiful works of art, murals, sculptures, and textile wall hangings.
Among the Many Works of Art at the LAPD Ahmanson Training Facility
  • A Sculpture Memorial for Those Lost in the Line of Duty
  • The LAPD's Iconic "To Protect and to Serve" Emblem
  • One of Many Colorful Painted Wall Murals
Photos by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

On the tour we stopped by the center's mini museum display in the hallway and learned about the history behind The Gamewell Police Box (phone box).  This old-fashioned black box opened with a single large key and it used to be on the streets of Los Angeles and cities around the U.S. and was used by police to call the station.  In modern times this relic of the past has been replaced by state-of-the-art technology and communications.

The LAPD's Antique Police Phone Box On Display
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

A special treat for moms and dads only was the opportunity to attend a special LAPD Firearms & Tactics Section law enforcement simulation program designed just for us.  Here, using the same $135,000 high tech IES simulation system that the department uses to train its cadets, I got to role play as a police officer arriving at the scene of a hostage situation in progress.  Holding an object that looked similar in shape to a real gun I virtually responded to the crime scene I was dropped from a helicopter.  Then I repelled down the side of a building and climbed into a window.  As I stepped down into the room I suddenly saw a gunman holding a hostage -- I had only a few short seconds to think and react quickly to save the victim and my own life.  

The LAPD Firearms & Tactics Section Expert Leads Our Simulation Experience
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

Having to process so many different factors going on around me really quickly before reacting was unbelievably hard.  Ultimately to experience all that a real police officer goes through to do the right thing gave me a first-hand understanding of what every cadet at the Academy must practice to perfection.   It also helped me get an idea what it must be like for our police officers when they actually encounter stressful and life-threatening situations not unlike the one presented to me.

All in all, what an incredible day this was.  I would have never thought in a million years that my family and I would be attending a Hanukkah celebration like this and that we would enjoy it and learn so much too.  Truly, this was the experience of a lifetime and probably the most extraordinary holiday party we've ever been to.

Don't miss MommyBlogExpert's Other Hanukkah Posts 
5th Nite of Chanukah - An Arctic Celebration for Special Needs Kids

We enjoyed this most exceptional Hanukkah celebration at the L.A. Police Department's Academy.  Now it's your turn, leave a comment and tell about the most unusual or memorable Chanukah experience you and your family have experienced.

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Federal Communications Commission (FCC) Hosts FREE Parent Educator Kids & Cell Phone Forum Dec 14th


According to an FCC news release I received today, recent surveys show cell phone ownership among children has increased 68 percent in the past five years and typical teens send a text message every 10 minutes during waking hours.

My Triplet Teen Girls & I Have a Good Laugh Before Going to a Fashion Show Together
Photo by oldest son of MommyBlogExpert.com

As a mom of four teens, 2 boys and 2 girls all born within a year (including triplets), cell phone use by kids is something I'm passionate about, both as a mother and in my position as MommyBlogExpert.com which is all about enhancing family living for kids, moms, dads, and extended family members including such things as protecting our youth and raising kids successfully in today's multi-media influenced culture.  

I fully support events like these that are being held in response to the exponential growth in adolescent cell phone ownership, use, and unfortunately abuse.

Next week, the FCC will hold Generation Mobile, a government-sponsored forum for parents and educators that will address a range of cell phone use and abuse topics involving kids and teens including
  • Cyberbullying
  • Sexting
  • Safe cell phone use
The event takes place on Tuesday, December 14 live in Washington, D.C. and will be simultaneously webcast at http://reboot.fcc.gov/live.  During this FCC special forum those parents and educators participating virtually will be able to send their questions to livequestions@fcc.gov or they can use the hashtag #GenMobile on Twitter for the event's duration.

WHEN: Tuesday, December 14, 2010, 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. EST

LIVE AT: McKinley Technology High School Auditorium, 151 T Street Northeast, Washington D.C., 20002

Twitter Hashtag #GenMobile

Generation Mobile will feature remarks by FCC Chairman Julius Genachowski and a presentation of findings from a Pew Internet and American Life study on kids' mobile phone usage.  The forum will include a panel of teens, parents and educators sharing their thoughts on mobile technology.  A second panel will focus on educating and empowering parents through an "Ask the Mobile Experts" session. The experts will also recommend tools and resources to parents and kids for the safe and responsible use of mobile phones.

The event is free and open to the public. Due to limited seating, those attending the event live are asked to pre-register by submitting their name, organizational affiliation and phone number to generationmobile@fcc.gov .  There is no need to RSVP if you are participating on-line, just log on at the start of the event to join in.

The FCC notes that reasonable accommodations for persons with disabilities are available upon request. Please e-mail fcc504@fcc.gov or call the Consumer & Governmental Affairs Bureau at 202-418-0530 (voice), 202-418-0432 (TTY) with your contact information, should FCC staff need to contact you, and a detailed description of the accommodation you require. Requests should be made as early as possible, as last minute requests may be impossible to fulfill.

For additional Generation Mobile information, contact Roger Goldblatt at (202) 418-1035 or
Roger.Goldblatt@fcc.gov.

For more news and information about the Federal Communications
Commission visit: www.fcc.gov

How long do your kids spend on their cell phones each day? And, even more importantly, do you really know what they're doing on these phones?  Please leave a comment and share with us.

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5th Chanukah Candle Tonight, Follows a Daytime Party for the Special Kids of The Friendship Circle L.A.


5 Foot Tall Working Menorah With Candles
Handmade by an Ice Sculpture Artist
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

We've already lit Candle #5 this evening, but still wanted share some of the fun we had last night and today in our continuing celebration of Hanukkah.

The first days of the holiday this year have been so busy -- and we had a very full schedule of parties over the next days -- so we decided to make last night's Hanukkah celebration a quiet, stay-at-home family affair.
Dexter Wears His Chanukah Gift With Pride:  The Goldie Coat by Zack & Zoey
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

The highlight Saturday night at our house -- besides the menorah lighting, of course -- was another sleepover by Dexter the Miniature Pinscher who has begun to make more frequent appearances on this blog ever since he made his debut on MommyBlogExpert wearing Snug As A Bug's Red Doggie Pajamas.  

Last night my kids gave our favorite little canine a Chanukah present: a completely reversible Gold Lame & Leopard Dog Coat from Zack & Zoey.  When they put this on him one of my girls said, "Doesn't this little four-legged guy look kind of like Michael Jackson?"

Today was a bit more fast-paced and even more joyful than the night before because our whole family attended An Arctic Chanukah Party hosted by 501(c) non-profit The Friendship Circle of Los Angeles (FCLA)

A Smiling FCLA Volunteer at the Party 
These Dreidel Earrings Were Really Awesome
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com


FCLA's mission is three-fold
  • To provide Jewish children who have special needs with a full range of social recreational and Judaic experiences
  • To provide their parents with respite and support
  • To enrich inspire and motivate Jewish teen through sharing of themselves with others
Above and Below: My Son and Other Teen Volunteers Play in The Snow With Little Ones
Photos by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

I am so proud to say that my 13 year-old son who has served as a volunteer for FCLA's Kung Fu group for several years, also helped out at Sunday's party.  His triplet sister decided to come along to the celebration too, and was so moved to action that she signed up today to start donating her time to work with the group's very young special kids.
 

FCLA Kids With Special Needs Enjoy The Snow
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

The party itself, which was free to all, was among one of the most inspirational holiday events I've ever attended.  In such a small space in just a few hours there was so much going on:  activities that would appeal to every age group from toddlers to teens.  The best part was that it appeared as if the teen volunteers out numbered the kids who directly benefit from FCLA's community services so there was a lot of one-on-one going on here this afternoon.

Snow is Made Right Before the Kids' Eyes
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

If you are wondering, yes it DID snow in Los Angeles today in FCLA's backyard thanks to the "snow" that was produced by Arctic Glacier on site.  As the kids watched, huge blocks of ice weighing hundreds of pounds moved down a conveyor belt and were magically transformed into snow flying out of an over-sized hose.  

As if that wasn't enough, while this was going on outside, the talented artists Victor and Antonio from Crystal Creations were at work in the main party room carving a kosher menorah over 5 feet high from a gigantic piece of ice as party-goers watched.

Rabbi Michy Leads the Group in Singing Chanukah Songs Together
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

FCLA Director Rabbi Michy, guitar in hand, along with some of the teens from the L.A. Jewish Homeschooler's Band, entertained as the organization's kids joined in a lively sing-along.   Then everyone enjoyed the lighting of the menorah with real candles placed in holders atop the crystal-like ice sculpture, followed by presents which were distributed to all FCLA's children.

A Young Marshmallow Menorah Builder Shows Off His Masterpiece
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

This party, for sure, was amazing on many different levels.  Multiple craft tables ran simultaneously -- all staffed with teen volunteers -- with special needs kids of every age making everything from marshmallow menorahs to faux stained glass dreidel windows.

FCLA Chocolate Custard Donuts
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

In keeping with the icy theme refreshments included hot chocolate for kids and cappuccino for caffeine-dependent adults like me.  There was even a separate room overflowing with what seemed like an endless amount of food ranging from hundreds of potato latkes with applesauce and sour cream to many dozens of jelly and custard doughnuts with "The Friendship Circle" hand-stenciled by volunteers on many of them.

What Didn't FCLA Think of When Planning This Party?
This Clever Sign for the Kids Actually Worked
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

Seeing so many thoughtful teenagers working with these children in need -- all enjoying a fun-filled day of Hanukkah festivities together -- was truly heart-warming and a vision that I'm certain I will carry in my mind for the rest of my life.
Detail of the FCLA Chanukah 2010 Menorah
Photo by Janis Brett Elspas, MommyBlogExpert.com

Don't miss MommyBlogExpert's Other Hanukkah Posts
2nd Nite of Chanukah - Homemade Potato Latkes for Kids
1st Nite: in the Chanukah Mood With Adam Sandler & 8 Crazy Nights Song
Guess what my teen daughter is getting for Chanukah this year
Beyond Thanksgiving Pie: Moving into Hanukkah & the rest of the holidays
Really Memorable Gifts for Celebrating Hanukkah



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Please leave a comment: Tell what you think of the FCLA party post or alternately, feel free to share what you have been doing for Chanukah with your kids.