Wacky Parenting Tips & Tricks for Raising Kids + $10,000 Last Comic Sitting Contest, Ends 4/22

Parenting
Sweepstakes details below



Having four in diapers at once presents some unique challenges as my hubbie and I found out when we had a son followed by a set of triplets all within a year. How did we survive those years of what seemed like non-stop diaper changing? I think the best way to answer that is to share with you some tips of what worked for us that you can apply to your own parenting experience even a single baby.

Me, Hubbie and our four kids all in diapers
Buy Diapers by the Case
You know you're going to need and use mountains of them. So you may as well buy them in bulk in advance. All you have to do is calculate how many diapers you need for a year and then buy them by the case from a place like Toys r Us like we did. Sure your garage will look like a diaper warehouse. But just think: you'll have the peace of mind of knowing that you never will have to run out past midnight looking for a grocery store that's open all night to get a pack of diapers to tide you over till morning.


Wear Headphones
If you have a screamer of a baby then these are essential to your diaper changing ritual. We had to do this with one of our darling children who shall remain unnamed in this post since this kid is a teenager now. Make sure you wear the super dooper headphones they use at the shooting range for maximum protection from that kid that yells at the top of their lungs every time you try and put a fresh diaper on them.


Get Your Preschool to do the Bulk of Your Diaper Training
Hey, I know this is the easy way out. But with four kids in diapers at the same time I was pretty tired to have to start doing all the potty training by myself. So we outsourced diaper training and put all four kids in a daycare center that was open from 6 am to 6 pm. You still might need to deal with some accidents and tantrums at home in the off hours but farming out this duty (pun intended) will make potty training a lot less stressful for the parents, for sure.

How to Enter the Sweepstakes 

With all this potty talk it's a good time to bring up something else up with moms and dads who want to get on the inside track. To celebrate the bathroom, the most private room in anyone's house that is also the butt of the most publicly-made jokes, one of the biggest manufacturers of toilet products is launching an entertaining new site called The Clorox Lounge.


This new community transforms that oft slandered room into an online comedy club where moms can to go for some comedy relief. And what mom doesn't need some fun after having to once again do the all-important job of cleaning the family toilets? Emceed by comediene, actress and mom Sherri Shepherd, who is also a co-host of The View TV morning talk show, moms are in for non-stop fun that includes hilarious anecdotes, entertaining games and contests,  and of course giveaways and coupons. 

From potty training to teens who monopolize the bathroom for hours and astronomical water bills those darling kids run up. The fact that all children are born with bathroom radar and always seem to need you most when you're in the privacy of your bathroom -- there's no shortage of humorous material. 


The best part is that simply by signing up for The Clorox Lounge starting February 27 through April 22,2012 you'll be automatically entered in their Last Comic Sitting Competition and Sweepstakes for a chance to win $10,000. You can also get extra entries daily for logging in to their site and commenting until April 22, 2012. Fans can also enter for a chance to win cool prize packs. Ten prizes will be given each week, for the next twelve weeks.



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DIY Oscar Party Fab Frugal & Fun Ideas to Celebrate the 2012 Academy Awards at Home This Sunday

Do it Yourself Party

Limos line up at Four Season Hotel Beverly Hills before 2011 Awards
Didn't make any of the pre or post Oscars parties A-Lists? Not to worry, I didn't get any invitations this year either. Truth be told, like most of the rest of the world, I'm not on anyone's list and have never received an invite. But that doesn't mean that you and I have to stay home and cry all dressed up with no place to go while Hollywood is celebrating the biggest entertainment industry event of the year.

As the saying goes, if you can't fight them, join them! Well, sort of. This Sunday host your own Oscar Academy Awards Party for your friends where you decide who to invite and what's on the menu. It doesn't have to be complicated or expensive -- it can even be last minute -- all it needs to be is fun. That's a whole lot better than being an actor or actress at the mercy of the directors and producers on any set, don't you think?

Nationally-recognized consumer and money-saving expert Andrea Woroch has a whole bunch of ideas to get you started to make your celebration affordable or even free. She says you should take advantage of free online services such as e-vite and your Facebook page to get your invites out fast and to keep track of the RSVPs. Woroch also suggests that you shop for some party wear at places like TJMaxx and troll the Internet to save on the refreshments at the grocery store by visiting sites like CouponSherpa and others offering printable and mobile coupons.

Hollywood Blvd near the theater at Highland where the Oscars will be presented

Building on Woroch's budget-minded philosophy, here's just a few of my own ideas to inspire your party planning creativity without spending alot of time or money on all the preparations. 

You'll notice that each of the five suggestions below from MommyBlogExpert all have several things in common: they're inexpensive and your guests share in the work and costs to make them happen.

The Hollywood Sign is as iconic as Movie Stars Themselves

Five MommyBlogExpert Oscar Party Ideas to Consider

Do Group Goody Bags
Here's a clever idea that's even cheaper and more fun than curating and buying all the trinkets yourself for the goody bags. Instead, give each party guest who's coming the heads up to bring a set number of the same item. Tell each person to spend no more than $10-$20 altogether and buy multiple identical items (like candy bars, stickers or even things from a dollar store). Meanwhile, as the host, purchase the same quantity of goody bags from a party store in advance. Then, have the empty bags set out on a table ready for everyone to drop in the goodies they brought. At the end of the party everyone who came will be surprised with their loot bag, even you!

Create a Fashion Boutique
How about totally skipping the swag bags for an all female crowd? Instead ask everyone to bring three accessories that are really nice but that they no longer want. This could be any accessory that one size fits all: a scarf, handbag, piece of jewelry, hat or other fashion accent. The main thing is that it should have some perceived valued to someone else and it should be either something new that was never used or an item that is in like-new condition. Then each of your girlfriends can "shop" for the equivalent number of items to bring home. You're bound to have at least a few of your guests going home very happy about their new treasures.

Hold a Celebrity Magazine Exchange
This one's good for a group of friends that likes reading People, the National Enquirer and the other movie star  magazines. Ask each person to bring a magazine of this genre, either one they are done with or a new one they picked up at the grocery checkout counter on their way to the party. Leave all the magazines out on your dining room table for people to flip through during the awards ceremony in case they get bored. Then after the final Oscar is announced encourage party goers to take any magazines home from this collection that they'd like. 

Organize a Pot Luck Buffet of Snacks & Drinks 
Ask guests to bring their favorite sweet and/or savory treats to share and assign others to bring their favorite drinks for all. Then you supply the paper plates, cups and utensils and serving dishes to present it all buffet style. Not enough food? Get everyone to chip in and order pizza for supper that's delivered to your party venue for everyone to eat during the show. 

Make Your Event Family Friendly
It's going to be a shame if one or more of your friends can't make your party either because they can't afford or can't find a babysitter for their kids. If you have the space, why not invite parents to bring their kids? Then set the little ones up with their own Oscar celebration in another room and ask your tweens or teens (or a friend's  responsible older kids) to keep them busy playing board games or doing simple craft since most youngesters -- gasp -- couldn't care less about the Academy Awards.

You get the idea. Think outside the box. Whatever you do you'll be having a memorable time with friends sans the expense and stress. Enjoy the awards ceremony and good luck to all the entrants from us all!
California-based DreamWorks is up for two Oscars in 2012

How will you spend Oscar Night 2012? What were your favorite movies, actors, actresses, directors and other crafts people last year? Who do you think will win this weekend? Share your thoughts as a comment.




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The Power of Female Friendships and Why They Matter in Personal & Professional Relationships

Friendship

Just a short while ago I was having one of those blogger writing block moments. Then I remembered I was meeting three girlfriends for lunch and began to reflect on all the reasons moms need our own friendships whether the kids are already post-college, at universities, in high school like mine are, or even haven't finished grade school yet. As a matter of fact why do female friendships -- whether you're single or married with or without children -- matter so much?


Martha Stewart, me and the other Dreamers Into Doers at MSLO New York

That's the inspiration for this post. That and the review I did on the New York Times Bestseller The Girls from Ames. Actually, I've been thinking a lot about that book the last few days in light of the sad news that the author of this title, Wall Street Journal Columnist Jeffrey Zaslow -- married and with daughters of his own -- died in a fatal auto accident last week. If you haven't read this amazing book about the power of deep friendships between women you might want to put this on your reading list.

Each of us has different groups of friends that we know socially and through our children and family. Most also have various meaningful feminine relationships with whom we have bonded with through our work as female professionals, mom bloggers and/or volunteering in the community. 

For example, I'm active in a women's entrepreneur community affiliated with Martha Stewart Living Omnimedia called Dreamers into Doers. In fact, I was privileged to be among the 80 or so female business owners from around the U.S. hosted by Martha for a professional development conference in New York City last year.

Then there was SheCon in Miami Beach where I not only was a speaker, I hung out with and got to know other prominent working moms like social media pioneer Aliza Sherman  and Just Precious mommy blogger Julie Pron. Let's not forget BlogHer, either -- definitely the mother of  all blogging conferences for women. There's way more gal friends to see and catch up with (and new ones to meet) at that annual blogging event than there is time for.

I absolutely love attending as many women's and blogging conferences and other events as possible -- like many of you do. This explains why MBE has a dedicated page on this blog featuring the largest free calendar list of upcoming women and mom blog conferences complete with links available anywhere online. Definitely check it out if you haven't already.

These business trips and outings provide an essential social outlet away from my other job as a work at home mom WAHM. Indisputably this time away from my family has its rewards, contributing to both my personal and professional growth not only as a woman, but as a wife and mother. I have a feeling that the experiences of many of you are similar.

Two friends at SheCon Miami L to R: Julie Pron & Aliza Sherman
Think about it. Friends are a given when you're a child. But when you're a grownup mom of children with friends of their own and all the fun and drama that go along with it, you might get so immersed in family life that you inadvertently neglect close adult womens' friendships. 

Those thoughts hit me hard just after catching up with three close friends here in L.A. the other day. For sure, our lives are insanely busy. In my case there's a total of 12 kids between the four of us  -- sons and daughters at every stage of development from elementary school through post-college age.  I suppose it shouldn't surprise me that we're only able to manage going out for lunch together once or twice a year. Ironically, we all wish it were a whole lot more often than that since we have tight relationships and have all lived in the same neighborhood for over 10 years.

Yet, this brief ladies schmooze date with some good female friends is a reminder, a lesson about living life to its fullest from the feminine perspective. A concept that's worth repeating. We women do indeed love and need our hubbies, significant others, and children, as well as independent interests and hobbies outside the scope of our families. 

But there's something else we need too. We big girls need each other to thrive and nurture our multifaceted souls, enriching each of our lives in many unique and special ways.  That's the message of Zaslow's Girls from Ames, too, and my latest friends encounter reconfirms that ideal.

As females how do you maintain your adult friendships with other women? What are some of the ways these relationships enhance your life whether or not you are married and/or have children? Why do woman to woman friendships mean so much to you?



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Music for Autism Free Interactive & Innovative WindSync Concert in L.A Area March 18

Special Needs 

As readers know I love to share resources for free music for children because it's everywhere, you just need to know where to look for it. The latest example is a free Los Angeles area interactive concert for individuals of all ages -- both kids and young adults -- with autism and other special needs and their families that is planned for Sunday, March 18 at 1 p.m. in Culver City, California.


The upcoming no-cost performance featuring WindSync, a young and energetic musical ensemble injecting their own novel approach to classical music, is presented by The Help Group and Music for Autism and takes place at The Help Group Culver City Campus, 4160 Grand View Blvd, Los Angeles, CA 90066. There is no charge but reservations are required to attend.

According to the event's organizers, this unique concert will be professionally performed bringing forth an enriching musical experience in an environment where individual differences are celebrated. The musical one hour concert includes three segments: Concert Time, Conducting Time, and Percussion Time. The best part is that concertgoers aren't just sitting enjoying the music, the audience will be  invited to actively join the experience with body movement and instruments that will be provided.


Meet the Houston-based WindSync Music Group

Reservations are essential and may be made any of three ways
     1. Emailing RSVP@musicforautism.org
     2. Visiting the Concert Calendar section of MusicforAutism.org
     3. Calling Music for Autism at 877-863-7473 ext. 1

Music for Autism is raising public awareness and enriching lives through autism-friendly, interactive concerts developed specifically for individuals with autism and their families. The concerts, held in the United States and United Kingdom, feature professional musicians, including Tony Award winners and Grammy-nominated classical artists.

Non-profit The Help Group is helps young people with autism and other special needs fully realize their potential. It is the largest, most innovative and comprehensive organization of its kind in the U.S. and is a recognized as a leader in the field of autism. A wide range of innovative autism spectrum disorder programs are offered each day to the 950 students ages 3-22 who attend its autism day schools.

My kids, hubbie and I are all musical playing multiple instruments. Some of us even sing! How about your family how do you and your children music into every day life?



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Twitter Parties Schedule this Week for Moms & Women Lots Going on February 20 - 26 With Prizes to Win

Twitter Parties

Updated 2/24/12

Here's this week's list of parties moms and women will enjoy -- lots of Twitter parties are already scheduled this week offering family-friendly prizes. Check back frequently because more events will be added as the week goes on and this schedule is updated with even more Twitter party links.


THIS WEEK

Monday, February 20

Let's Get Organized @Rubbermaid Winter 5-Day Twitter Party, Day 1: Quick Cleaning at 8 pm EST. Be sure to use @Rubbermaid and #Rubbermaid in your Tweets to be eligible to win prizes. No RSVP required.

Don't miss the #TryWindowsPhone #GNO Twitter Party at 9 pm EST on sharing moments. Hosted by @MomitForward and sponsored by @WindowsPhone . RSVP

Get in on the excitement at the Melissa & Doug Twitter Party at 9 pm EST. The #mdparty is sponsored by @MelissaandDoug RSVP


Tuesday, February 21

Come to the Baby Days at Walmart #SealyBaby Twitter Party at 12 Noon EST. Hosted by @Kolcraft. Opps to win great prizes. Details

Don't miss the #BrightFuture Twitter Party at 3 pm EST, hosted by @MomCentral with special guest @BrightFutureInt. Six people will have a $40 donation made in their names to BFI plus each will receive a music DVD featuring A-list celebrities. Details

Join the #StrutMoms @Clorox Twitter Party at 8 pm EST. RSVP
 

Join the Heart Health #CampbellSoup #GNO Twitter Party at 9 pm EST. Hosted by @MomitForward and sponsored by @CampbellSoupCoRSVP

Tiny Buddha Book Twitter Party at 8:30 EST. #TinyBuddhaParty is hosted by @partybizconnect with the chance to win prizes from @Lori_Deschene at the @tinybuddha. Details


Wednesday, February 22

Primrose Schools Family Dance-Off Twitter Party hosted by @MomTalkRadio at 8 pm EST. Prize: $25 Gift Card Follow @PrimroseSchools, @ResourcefulMom and @MomSelectAmy #Danceoff. RSVP/Info

Macaroni Kid Twitter #MacKidsTips #DrSmith Party 9 pm EST. Hosted by @SupahMommy and sponsored by @DoctorSmiths Diaper Rash Ointment. Prizes, giveaways and fun. RSVP


Thursday, February 23

It's a Healthy Living Equal Twitter Party at 12 Noon EST. Win prizes at this #EqualSucralose event. Hosted by @DebThompson and @KathleenHenage. RSVP

Office In-SPIRA-Tion #EXACTO Twitter Party at 1 pm EST. Hosted by @Somedayilllearn Prizes: two $25 gift cards, two $50 gift cards and grand prize of one $100 gift card. RSVP

Get in on the chat about Fitness at Home at the #GaiamTV Twitter Party at 8 pm EST. Hosted by @MomSpark with lots of prizes being given away: yoga prize bags with Gaiam yoga mats, gym bags and more. RSVP

Get your #TaxTime Questions answered at the @SentrySafe Twitter Part at 8 pm EST. Sponsored by Sentry Safe and hosted by @AllYou and @TaxGirl. WIN Prizes, No RSVP

Women on Their Way's Local Nation #WynWomen Twitter Party at 8 pm EST. Hosted by @MomTalkRadio. Prizes include digital photo frames, MinoHD Flip Video Cameras, Wyndham Reward Certificates and a week stay courtesy of Endless Vacation Rentals. Also follow @ResourcefulMom and @MomSelectMary.  RSVP/Info

You're invited to the @LibmanCompany Twitter Party at 8:30 pm EST. Use to join in the fun of hardwood floor care, cleaning tips and giveaway

The #Cravebox Make a Date Twitter Party at 9 pm EST.  Hosted by @SheSpeaks with prizes by @Cravebox. RSVP


Friday, February 24

Join the #VZWBuzzTwitter Party at 3pm EST for a chat about smartphones and the cloud. Prizes include Purple DROID RAZR by Motorola (+ $125 Verizon Gift Card) and a White Plantronics Marque M155 Bluetooth Headset.  RSVP



COMING SOON...

Thursday, March 1

The #TilexClean Twitter Party at 7 pm EST. Hosted by @SocialMoms offering $20 Amazon Gift Cards to 20 random winners (10 to those who Tweet about the party in advance & 10 to attendees of the event). RSVP

Friday, March 2

Shawn Galloway #FanJamSG Twitter Party at 9 pm EST. Hosted by @MomBlogSociety and @pamelamaynard with sponsors @ItsFreeAtLast and @EssexRetail. Prizes: Two $25 Amazon gift cards, one $10 Toys r Us GC and one $10 Amazon GC. RSVP

Twitter Parties are listed free of charge in this weekly schedule. If you'd like to add an event to the Mommy Blog Expert Twitter Party Calendar please email janis at janiselspas dot com with Twitter Party in the subject line & including all the details and links in the body of your message. 



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